I’ve been actively practicing findom for well over a year now. And during my time I meet a lot of people who think FinDom is some kind of scam, a manipulative way to exploit weak people and only practiced by money hungry Dommes with no actual interest in BDSM orContinue Reading

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Hopefully this will educate and help you new subs who are curious about FinDom. Do your research. FinDom is short for financial Domination, and is a type of fetish. Simplified, it’s a fetish where the submissive pleases their Domme by paying or gifting her. He gets his pleasure from theContinue Reading

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Just starting out? Read about fetishes. About kink. Practice with a trusted friend. Choose a good performer name. Don’t choose one you already have connections with. Like gamertag or YouTube username. Find something that reflects on you, but make sure it’s not taken. Be unique. You are doing sex work.Continue Reading

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There’s a slight problem in today’s society. And that is that we generally don’t treat sexworkers as human beings. When I say we, I mean the general vanilla population. The ones who aren’t veterans in the bdsm or kink communities. The ones who are curious and want to try bdsmContinue Reading

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It was Easter and I was meeting my favorite slave for a session. He was shaking as usual, in anticipation and fear. I was excited for what happened next. We were at my house, as only a few lucky subs are invited. We had a few beers, and then IContinue Reading

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I keep hearing about this unwritten rule, that Dommes can’t message a sub first. She gets stapled an instadomme and shunned for “hunting pigs”. But isn’t this a little unnecessary? I don’t usually pm subs first, but what if there’s a sub that’s perfect for me, and he’s too shyContinue Reading